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Degrees
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I have professional training/degree in psychology - BS-MS (1999); I have worked as a certified psychotherapist since 1996 in South America, as a MFT (marriage and family therapist) in California, and as a mental health therapist in Arizona and Nevada since January 2002. My most recent degree is a MA in Integral-Transpersonal psychology from John F. Kennedy University.
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My Expert Service
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When mutual trust and respect are absent, the very core of a relationship is undermined so the possibility for healthy sharing, source of happiness and tranquility turn into a fake one, where sadness, frustration and resulting anger overwhelm us taking away every meaning and hope we build around the very special person we have feelings for.
During these very challenging moments, codependency issues, attachment to dreams and expectations, fears of abandonment and rejection, lack of approval and acceptance, guilt and self-sabotage become more evident as personal and relational barriers, perpetuating patterns of denial or criticism, creating victims and abusers, where we feel used, abused or neglected, disoriented and unable to face reality and cope it in assertive ways.
My approach is focused on promoting your insight about why you think, feel and react the way you do, to support you to take advantage of your own skills and potential and to guide you on taking care of your emotional needs and wounds that are not allowing you to mindfully and gently take good care of your life and your relationships with others.
I do take into account exploring and working on the issues affecting your mood and functioning, and facilitating the learning of personal tools that would allow you to ventilate, understand and process feelings, as well as to promote concrete changes in your life.
You could expect to receive sincere, ethical, assertive and emphatic support even in those moments when denial and avoidance are your worst enemies. I will challenge your ego and promote the awakening and nurture of your real self.
If you are serious about you self-development and relationships, and the need to cope and learn from frustration and betrayal from your daily relationships, I would like to offer my support to work with you on this challenging, painful but relieving and fulfilling endeavor.
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Experience & Qualifications
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My work experience was gained working on outpatient mental health clinics, non-profit agencies, inpatient clinics and through my private practice.
I did extensive research in hypnotherapy since the beginning of the 90s. I have worked as a hypnotherapist in my private practice since 1996. I was also trained and certified as a hypnotherapist in CA in 2003.
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Available Modes Of Communication
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email/chat
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Most Recent Client Reviews (Read all 895 reviews) |
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 by dannnn on Nov 18 2009
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very good
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by Ashley Stine on Nov 15 2009
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very helpful
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by monks on Nov 13 2009
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thank you!
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by oceaneyes on Nov 11 2009
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insightful, great therapist gets to the root of your issues
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by cds0513 on Nov 10 2009
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(Read all 895 reviews)
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Contact
Rafael Morales Toia
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Home » Professional Counseling » Relationship Issues » Coping with Infidelity
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