Hi there!
I specialise is relationship breakdowns, whether its
in the form of surviving an affair, or understanding how to end a relationship.
I am here to support you through every step, to assist you in making decisions,
and guide you so that you can go on from here - knowing you have done the right
thing.
For a brief intro
I have included some information here to assist you - Free of charge!
For some, nothing changes and the affair is either
ignored, denied, repeated, or continued. The affair can unfortunately also end a
relationship. For others, an affair can cause a reassessment of the existing
relationship and provide an opportunity for change, growth and an improved
relationship.
If you ignore the Affair
For many, an affair can simply be a storm that blows
over. It's easier to put the affair at the back of
your mind and lock it away. Unfortunately, doing nothing creates wedges between
you, which can often lead to repeated affairs.
If the relationship ends
Deciding to end or stay in a relationship after
infidelity has been present, is a huge decision. Regardless of who makes the
decision to end the relationship, a person’s life is generally turned
upside-down at this point.
If the relationship is resumed
An affair doesn’t have to end the relationship, but
it must be a big wake up call that something is seriously wrong.
To have a chance at rebuilding, you must:
Acknowledge the affair
- Talk to each other
- Show each other that you are
trying - Restore trust
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Make some changes -
Remember
– your first meeting, the birth of the children, old friends etc. - Forgive
– forgiveness is merely a decision.